Brady is back….back again
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Word.
I'm one for two on the whole marriage thing, and the second one was tenuous as fuck for a good number of the 25 years to date (still is some days). Weird to judge this shit.
I follow her on Instagram, as far as I know they have not gotten married.
I have to think that his decision to put himself back into harms way (and a 45year old has got to be more vulnerable) mattered to Gisele. It might of been a last straw, in a "I don't want to deal with what is increasingly more likely to happen to this guy" kind of way.
No one really knows why their marriage is reportedly ending or who's decision it was, it's just speculation at this stage, but his decision to return to football seems to be an issue for her and your reasoning is very solid.
In any marriage, trust, support and respect are the three keys and it has to be mutual; you have to trust, support and respect her, she has to trust, support and respect you.
For either party, if any of those three are missing, the ride is going to be bumpy.
For any of you who have a girlfriend/boyfriend or are married; do you trust that person 100%? Do you support them and what they do for a living and the things that are important to them? Do you respect them as a person?
If any of those three are missing; bon chance.
I feel sorry for any of you who have gone through a divorce and how it impacted both yourself and your children if any were involved.
Yeah, I don't give a shit about other people's divorces. None of my business, and certainly nothing I'm interested in. This goes double for athletes.
This. And I doubly don’t assume someone is a bad person, or their legacy as a player has been tainted, because they’re going through one.
They actually did pretty well at marriage, especially for celebrities. What’d they get, almost 20 years and 3 kids? Better than my parents and a lot of people I know.
It seems after 15-20 years it shouldn’t be called a divorce anymore. Maybe a reevaluation.
It seems after 15-20 years it shouldn’t be called a divorce anymore. Maybe a reevaluation.
Imagine if the norm were that marriages dissolved after 20 years unless people affirmatively decided to re-up them, and that there was no implicit expectation of renewal? The world would look a lot different.
Fallout from Brady's impending divorce already affecting the Bucs?
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#Bucs WR Cole Beasley has decided to retire effective immediately, his agents Joel and Justin Turner tell me and
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. “He is ready to be with his family after playing in 11 seasons and it’s time to be a full time dad and husband.”
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#Bucs WR Cole Beasley has decided to retire effective immediately, his agents Joel and Justin Turner tell me and
@MikeGarafolo
. “He is ready to be with his family after playing in 11 seasons and it’s time to be a full time dad and husband.”
Really should be 5 years with a mutual option for another 5. Then, when you're in your contract year, you're either trying to improve yourself to get your spouse to re-up or be ready to hit the open market.
There is something about that "it's time to be a full-time dad and husband" language that rankles me. On one hand, I never took a dozen 4-5 day business trips between August and January every year for 11 years (while having much of February through June free). On the other hand, I left the house every day around 7 and returned home around 6 roughly 5 days a week for at least 48 weeks a year for the 20 or so year period I had children at home. Sorry for the digression.
Same man.
That's what's a tad irritating about all of this talk, although it is nice to see this thread page going the humorous route.
People have open marriages, others where someone works basically all of the time. Some people sleep in separate beds.
I have one daughter who is a performer and does gig work all over the world. She and her husband have to figure out lots of shit, provisional living arrangements, sometimes going months without being together. "Not working 40 and shutting down at 5 to help with homework and watch netflix" isn't a character flaw. It's a choice people make, sometimes out of necessity.
Sometimes people seem to be saying that anything short of a 1950s traditional marriage is a mistake.
I loled.
Divorce may be the best option for his kids, and I guess I can see the appeal of "I'll use work as an escape from the trauma," but what a tough thing to go through while trying to perform at the top of your profession.
While I agree, I was taking aim at something slightly different. If Cole Beasley believes he wasn't a "full-time Dad or husband" before today, that's on him, not his job. By implication of his tweet, an average 40-hour-a-week commuting spouse/parent is not a "full-time" one.
tl;dr? Fuck Cole Beasley.
Yeah, fuck Beasley but I think we're being uncharitable here because he's generally a fuckstick. He's gone a lot and wants to be home more. I don't think he's implicating anyone else, it's just the words of a guy that gets hit in the head for a living. He wants to be with his family all the time, that's all.
Or he's just not that good anymore and wants to save face. There's a reason he wasn't on a team until a couple of weeks ago. My hunch is if he was seeing 10-15 targets a game he'd be feeling a little different...
If anything, he would have been the one who would have been asked to sign a prenup, no?
I’d expect a statement from his wife and kids saying “Nah, we’re good, keep playing.” any time now.
What defines a quality start to the day?
This is a sad topic, but a lot of these comments are pretty funny.
It's nice that she's finally opening up about it. I hate all of this secrecy.
We all knew that AB is a genuinely awful person. Brady had his back for several years, got him a ring, and is repaid like this.
