I don't feel badly for any of them, even the kids.
I mean, I feel badly for them in the way I feel badly when a kid gets all upset while learning a life lesson about, say, patience, or not getting an ice cream cone.
I remember the Sox in '86, and just being 'confused'. Like, totally hurt and just baffled, like 'wait how did this happen?' And deeply sad. Of course it was something that made me love the Sox that much more in the long run, and boy did it make 2004 sweet!
So, those kids are learning the highs and lows of sports. If I really felt THAT badly for them, it would mean that I probably shouldn't get my kids into sports. And that's NOT an option.
I'm all for some ataraxia, but if you really want everything to be easy and good then get yourself to Everybody Gets a Trophy Day, not actual competitions and, you know: life.
That all being said, I don't love watching kids suffer.
I mean, I feel badly for them in the way I feel badly when a kid gets all upset while learning a life lesson about, say, patience, or not getting an ice cream cone.
I remember the Sox in '86, and just being 'confused'. Like, totally hurt and just baffled, like 'wait how did this happen?' And deeply sad. Of course it was something that made me love the Sox that much more in the long run, and boy did it make 2004 sweet!
So, those kids are learning the highs and lows of sports. If I really felt THAT badly for them, it would mean that I probably shouldn't get my kids into sports. And that's NOT an option.
I'm all for some ataraxia, but if you really want everything to be easy and good then get yourself to Everybody Gets a Trophy Day, not actual competitions and, you know: life.
That all being said, I don't love watching kids suffer.