There's a lot of um... noise in here.
With respect to the draft, and him being a reach or whatever... isn't that BB's MO? He values certainty (or as close to it as he can come) in most anything he designs. It's why he doesn't like freelancing players. It's why he doesn't usually employ backs that aren't North South runners. It's why he gets confused with the grim reaper when people fumble. It's why he invests in his special teams in ways that other teams don't. Higher than normal draft picks on special teams players (Gostkowski was a 4th rounder, and people dumped on BB for reaching on him as well). Using name players on ST (for better or worse: Edelman, Sanu, Gronk). He puts a priority on ST to gain an edge in general, but pays a premium for them so that when planning he can have as much certainty in that aspect of the game as is reasonably possible. To be honest, I'm surprised he waited to grab a kicker until the 5th round. I have no idea if this kid works out, but as I've said on a few of this years picks - if BB liked him enough to reach for him, that's a good sign - regardless of the actual outcome.
As to the other stuff, don't we have better things to do with our time than sit around dissecting the body art/social media accounts of kids that are just out of college? I can personally say I was a decent teenager (don't ask my mom though!), who made a bunch/series of mistakes that I was fortunate enough to not get caught doing. I'm pretty sure that in college I did things I'd not want available on video/social media. I was fortunate enough to not memorialize them in body art, but that doesn't make me any better than someone who did. YMMV