Tatum has been getting a LOT of national facetime lately and I think I like him more every time I see him speak. He comes across as really authentic, thoughtful, and as a dude who LOVES basketball.
With some of the ref-badgering on court, I’m sometimes not sure about him, but he’s really growing on me.
Tatum became rich and famous very quickly, and that can take a guy in couple of different directions, yeah? He also found himself what appears to be an unexpected father, at age 19; his son was born Dec 7, 2017, the year he was drafted, and the birth mother was a high school ex that caused his college relationship to go sour.
This appears likely to be one of those potentially unsavory outcomes of being in a position such as Tatum was. At 19. And again, a person can go a some very different directions from there.
Tatum chose the direction of devoting himself to his som, buying his mom the apartment next to his, and putting her in charge of his salary and leaning on her to help raise his son; he lives (and frolicks) off endorsement income Gronk style. Indeed, he’s been explicit in how he feels OK being somewhat flamboyant in his wealth at times is precisely a function of the fiscal responsibility he has set for himself… from letting his mom control the lion’s share of his wealth. They’re actually pretty funny about it when asked, as she’d love to reign him in on the flamboyancy more, but what can she really say when he’s actually being so damned responsible!
And, part and parcel, he appears to be a very committed father. And we know this isn’t always the direction these things go. He’s far from bitter; he seems quite the opposite.
A few years ago, a poster here found themselves sitting next to Tatum’s mom and her partner and Deuce and had occasion to ask how they felt about then Coach Bras Stevens. IIRC, they indicated that they were very, very satisfied with the hands that Tatum was in. I think about that now and again, how Brad’s college experience might not have made him the guy to coach millionaires, but as far as overall personnel management of young men…
Anyway, yeah, everything in life is a crap shoot, but if you’ve gotta take your shots, Tatum seems like the kind of guy you build around.