So lots of questions here and in the legal forum about how the judge participating in the settlement might ultimately impact how he decides on the merits.
We don't know what Berman did or didn't do today, behind closed doors, but one thing you can imagine happening is potential discussion whether acceptance of responsibility was on the table. But mediators always want to know what are the "soft" variable that might be sticking points before they get to the hard (I don't mean difficult) issues. So, for example, in a classic mediation that's a dispute about money, before the mediator gets to talking numbers, he wants to know what else he needs to clear first, because sometimes the "soft" variables are most important. So, if one side wants a confidentiality provision, for example, and the other side doesn't want to give one, he needs to know how complicated that issue is going to be. If you feel that the side demanding no confidentiality might cave eventually, maybe when you start talking numbers you take that into account and figure you're going to have to try to get them some extra cash. Etc.
In this case, I see the hard variable as the number of games, and the soft variable to things like whether there will be any acceptance of responsibility. There was a report from one of the shitheads on twitter that the NFL is demanding that Brady agree to the findings in the Wells report. Presumably, there has been some discussion of this issue, and with Brady in the room, it's easy to imagine how it at least might have gone. Let's say Brady said, "Judge, I want to play football, but I cannot say that I had any awareness of balls being deflated (if they were), because it's just not true."
Judges are humans, and the reality is that while the judge may do his best to put settlement to the side if he's required to decide the merits, this kind of direct statement from a party is not easily ignored. The judge may very well think, "he may be bullshitting me, he may be telling the truth, I don't know." In which case it's of no moment, other than a hurdle the judge has to get over if he wants the case to settle. If, on the other hand, the judge hears this and believes it, or doesn't believe it, then it's impossible to come up with a scenario in which it doesn't creep in, in some fashion, into his decision of the case.
So, while there has been a fair amount of discussion about whether the judge would or wouldn't hold it against one side or the other if they were being difficult in settlement discussions, I thought I'd put a little more meat on the bone. It's a small point, but maybe an example of how these things can play out.